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How Kids Learn Grit Through Jiu-Jitsu – And the Role Parents Play in Building Lifelong Skills

In today’s world, many parents are looking for ways to raise strong, independent kids who can face challenges head-on. Jiu-jitsu offers more than just a way for kids to stay active—it teaches grit, resilience, and real-life problem-solving. These are the same traits that help children grow into confident, capable adults. The mats become a proving ground not just for martial arts, but for personal growth.

What Is Grit, and Why Does It Matter?

Grit is the ability to persevere through struggle, bounce back from failure, and keep working even when things get hard. It’s not about being the toughest or the fastest—it’s about not quitting when things don’t go your way. In Jiu-jitsu, this lesson gets taught every time a child taps out and has to try again.

Kids don’t magically develop grit overnight. They grow it by facing small challenges, feeling the discomfort of losing or struggling, and learning how to keep going anyway. Jiu-jitsu gives kids those opportunities in a controlled, safe, and encouraging environment.

How Jiu-Jitsu Builds Real-Life Skills

On the mats, kids have to think quickly, stay calm under pressure, and adapt to whatever situation comes their way. That might mean figuring out how to escape a tough position, staying focused after a loss, or drilling a technique over and over until they get it right.

These moments are about more than just learning a move—they’re building blocks for problem-solving, confidence, and patience. Over time, kids realize that with effort and consistency, they can overcome obstacles both on and off the mat.

The Parent’s Role: Supporting Without Overstepping

One of the most powerful things a parent can do is step back—just enough. It’s tempting to jump in and solve things for your child, especially when you see them struggle. But grit is only built when kids face challenges themselves.

Here’s how parents can support that growth:

  • Encourage effort over outcome. Focus on hard work, not just winning.

  • Let them struggle a little. It’s okay if your child has a tough class or even wants to quit sometimes. Talk about it, but don’t rush to “fix” it.

  • Model resilience. Share times you’ve failed, learned from it, and kept going.

  • Celebrate persistence. If your child keeps showing up and trying, they’re doing exactly what they need to do.

Independence Starts With Small Steps

Over time, Jiu-jitsu students learn to tie their belts, remember their gear, set goals, and reflect on their own progress. These small responsibilities help kids gain a sense of ownership over their journey. They become more independent—not because someone told them to be, but because they’ve practiced it every week on the mat.

Final Thoughts

Jiu-jitsu doesn’t just create stronger athletes—it creates stronger humans. When kids learn to face failure, stay calm under pressure, and solve problems with patience and determination, they’re preparing themselves for life. And with the right kind of support from parents—encouragement, patience, and a little space to grow—those lessons become tools they’ll carry forever.

Want your child to grow grit? Let them roll, tap, try again, and discover just how strong they really are.

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